Goodbye 2012, hello new year

It’s been a big year, I’m sure you’ll all agree and one that has passed us by quickly….or is that because we are just getting older? This year saw us get married after 12 years together and four glorious ones with Phoebe part of our life. We venture off on a beautiful family-moon to Hamilton Island and returned home to find out we were pregnant with our second child. Life has been good.

I’m beginning to learn more about myself and my limits, about those who I have surrounded myself with and what matters most. I’m climbing out of my shell more and more, and have started putting myself out there. I’m beginning to connect with other bloggers and attend dinners and events, something i never would have done in the past ….. and hopefully friendships will build further from this. I’ve learnt that I need to start putting myself first more too and also return to my love of photography which I have neglected this year too much for my liking.

I’ve never been too big on making resolutions for the new coming year or keeping them. This year I’m going to set some goals, mini projects if you will. Success or failure, will not exist, it will all be about how I feel. So without further ado, some of my goals:

Cooking, hubby is the cook in our house, he loves it, is good at it and he thinks I’m not good at it. But with his work, this year we seemed to be eating later and later, pushing Phoebe’s bedtime later and later. Our night time routine has gone out the window and I want to get it back, especially before Bubba V arrives. With me starting maternity leave in the new year and being home for 2013, I want to start cooking more, exploring new meals for our family too.

Photography has still been part of my life this year but I’ve lacked the time to enjoy it as much. I previously have. I’d love to do a 52 week project, but don’t want to overcommit myself with my. New role as a mother of two. Instead, I will endeavour to pick my camera up weekly, enjoy my surrounds but not be all consumed by spending all my time behind they camera.

It’s about me too next year, I’m not going to turn all selfish like but at times this year, I have felt like I’ve put others before myself but sometimes at the expense of myself. I still want to remain the caring, compassionate person I believe myself to be, but I want to be heard to. I want spend time here to release my love of writing, photography and connection. I want to read more, not just magazines and blogs when I get time, but real paper books that ooze the aroma I love.

Get away, we have a caravan down the beach however I rarely venture their without hubby. There are varied reasons for this but it is a beautiful escape that I need to start taking more advantage of.

Embrace the moment, too easily in the last few years my calm has gone, I find myself getting frustrated and at the end of my tether too quickly. In the past I was never like this, I was calmer and took each moment as it came, I want to get back to this, for me, hubby and the kids.

Move it, when Bubba V has arrived and I am recovered, I can’t wait to start moving again, this unstable pelvis business is doing my head in now! The plan is to start with walking short distances and building up, then slowly adding in some jogging and building from there. I’ve never been too big into fitness but I’m really looking forward to changing that next year.

I have other thoughts swirling in my head too, but if you have been regular visitor here, you’ll know that I’m not a fan of really long posts, so i’ll finish it there. I’d like to take this opportunity now to thank all of you who visit here, over on my Facebook, Instagram and Twitter accounts and comment when you visit. It pleases me to no end that finally I’m starting to build my own little community here and I hope to continue to connect with you in the new year.

On an end note, do you have a resolution, a project or goals you have set yourself next year? I’d love to hear about them!

Bel x


4 thoughts on “Goodbye 2012, hello new year

  1. 2012 certainly bought some smiles and quite a few challenges. I think I have learnt so much by getting through it all, and it has prompted a lot of conversation in this house about what the New Year will bring. I too like to set goals, but am keeping it simple this year. Hubby just wants to live life and be happy, no more sweating the small stuff. Me, well I think he’s on to something. Living life a little better means making more time for each other, and taking the opportunities to give our kids as many happy memories as we can. Usually my resolutions involve giving up chocolate and the like, but this year I say chocolate makes me happy so I resolve to keep eating it 🙂

  2. Happy new year and yes I couldn’t agree more the year just went so quick… Time flies when you have children and I always feel there’s not enough time in a day most days . I will just put this out in the universe for the new year that I Want to be more organized, more patience running a business is very important to me but not at the expense of my children (so ill be stepping back and employing staff), fitness as much as I know I don’t spend much time sitting around I’m on the go all the time I want to put time aside for my fitness lose weights get trim and feel lighter on my feet. A body balance class or two a week and lots of walking my tiny tots in the pram is on the list. Time has been a issue this year for me and I feel like my friendships that I hold dearly t my heart (work friends that have ecome my best friends over the years) have not been the same …I want to try a little harder at making catch ups ! So bell my gorgeous friend if you need a walking partner I’m here 😉 in that matter if you need anything I’m here ….raising two children is hard work so if you need advice, space or anything I’m here xo

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